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Suicide ideation
Fellowship Report


Suicide Intervention: British, Punjabi Sikh Women

A Holistic Approach 

Findings and Recommendations

This section presents and discusses the findings and recommendations of my Churchill Fellowship research. My aim was to gain an insight into suicide interventions that could be beneficial to the UK in supporting Punjabi Sikh women like myself. Punjab is immensely diverse culturally, regionally and religiously hence, non-Sikhs are likely to resonate with the themes and may find this research useful. Past research shows that Punjabi Sikh women are highly at risk of suicide and self-harm within the UK (Husain et al, 2011). My objective therefore, was to investigate for alternative suicide interventions ideally sourcing information from my ancestral homeland in India which presently continues to be recognised for some of the highest rates of suicide and attempted suicide in the world. 

Having experienced suicide bereavement myself as have some of the interviewees that I met, I can empathise with how problematic suicide is. I reflect on my experiences of observing a perpetual disengagement of the issue within my own community and how it impacts on all generations. Overall, both the familiarity and enlightenment of suicidology as a social practice has added value to my study. Wall (2006) on discussing postmodern research explains of using the freedom of the researcher to speak as a 'player' in the research project. To mingle experience in with those who are being studied as it is what is needed to move inquiry further along. She quotes Ellis (1991 cited in Wall, 2006) who advocates for social scientists to use their lived experience, unanswered questions and introspection within their study. 

Ideation


Theme 1. Self-harm and Stages of Suicide Ideation 

contributions from Dr Amandeep Singh, Dr Sarabjeet Singh, Nelson Vinod Moses

Suicide ideation is the intermittent disturbance of thoughts and emotions that may lead to ending one's life. I learn that suicide does not occur overnight but that it develops over time in stagesIt is explained to me that social inter-personal and etiological factors such as substance abuse, financial debt, emotional/physical abuse, poor health or grief from bereavement are triggers which initiate emotional responses. 
There are similarities conveyed in terms of explaining the stages of ideation, followed up with recommended interventions and reference to policy from the World Health Organization (WHO). I am informed by both Nelson and Dr Amandeep in separate interviews that it is at the very early ideation stage (preliminary or formative), that a person suffering from emotional imbalance may themselves be unaware of declining mental health. I learn that this preliminary ideation stage preceding actualised ideation, is the most important stage in which to intervene.
Actualised ideation is the main stage where recognition and more seriously, verbalisation occurs often leading to threats to attempt self-harm. It is hoped at this stage that self-acknowledgment of feelings and actions leads to a request for help. It is revealed that self-inflicting injuries at this stage are particularly problematic in younger women and girls and often continues even after help is sought from by health professionals. The next stage includes the planning or preparation of an attempt. The final stage is attempting with or without finalisation of death.

There remains a wider cultural lack of understanding and willingness to address suicide ideation and that it is still seen by Punjabi Sikh families as a position of shame if a family unit is unable to manage health issues. 

Dr Amandeep Singh

Psychologist

  • The warning signs or 'soft signs' that are indicative of ideation

Preliminary

Feeling low in mood

Changes in eating habits

Changes in sleeping habits

Withdrawal from habitual social activities

Feeling burdensome

Internal talk

Actualised

Feeling a sense of emotional deregulation

Includes all preliminary stage behaviours

Threatening self-harm

Supresses emotions with drug, alcohol use

Verbalises feelings, complaints, violent actions, creates scenarios, self-harms, repetitive thoughts, rumination. Asks for help.

Planning

Constructing letters to leave behind

Planning in isolation or in secrecy

Does not ask for help

Rejects praise or reward

Withdrawn from society

Self harm intensifies

Attempt

In a public or private space

Interrupted or Died by suicide

  • Interventions for individuals contemplating suicide

Keep a diary or journal to note: key events that trigger anxiety

Make incremental changes in behaviour and on improving your diet and exercise routine

Seek the advice of a health professional

Listen to your body and regulate your energy

Create boundaries with negative people 

Research into alternative therapies and book treatments

Accept peer support invitations and interact more

Plan and utilise social events to uplift your mood

Schedule activities in a timetable format to include mindfulness & breathing exercises

Participate in Gurmat sangeet/listen to Sikh prayers

Organise healthcare appointments

Draft up a safety plan

Find an expressive way to communicate and use language to re-connect with others

Manage self-talk and rumination of past events  

Share your experiences through counselling

Impart your safety plan with people that you trust

Recognise and action on your risk factors and protective factors

Use CBT skills. Observe, describe, participate 

Apply psychological first aid, find a safe place, contact someone for help

Maintain prescribed medications

Remain under supervision with healthcare professionals   

  • Interventions for Gatekeepers|family members to assist in minimising ideation

Keep a diary or journal to note the changes in the behaviour of the individual

Encourage or support in the improvement of diet and exercise routines

Offer your support in seeking professional help

Book/gift therapy sessions for each other

Attend a group activity

CBT practice 

Suggest wider peer support help

Schedule joint activities 

Be involved in constructing a timetable

Attend mindfulness & breathing exercises together

Participate in Gurmat sangeet (musical instruments) or listen to Sikh prayers, volunteer in the Gurdwara

Communicate clearly with a non-judgmental, empathetic approach

Listen at all times 

Do not speak about stressful events unnecessarily 

Develop constructive critical skills, offer praise

Devise future forward events

Spend time and hold events outdoors in nature

Support in delivering psychological first aid

Educate in Gatekeeper suicide prevention training

Safeguard living areas and spaces

Limit access to online sites

Be fully aware at all times of potential trigger and protective factors

List emergency contacts 

Selfcare plans


Theme 2a. Psychological First Aid and Selfcare Plans 

contributions from Dr Sarabjeet Singh, Dr Amandeep Singh

Dr Sarabjeet shares his recommendations with me by reflecting on a former research project in collaboration with Dr Amandeep, called ‘Utshah’ ('to endure'). His research investigates farmer suicides and implements desensitisation interventions, addressing the stigmatisation of suicide in regions of India. He finds that psychological, cultural and behavioural perspectives are being overlooked in research policy. He believes that depression, stress and anxiety particularly in the farming sector, are major factors in instigating instability and self-destruction within family units. He tells me of cases of entire family suicide attempts and deaths and of a ‘no other way out’ mindset. For those left behind, the fear of ostracization from community and lack of support from government is a major issue and does nothing for postvention support. The worrying trend to conspire or acquiesce with suicide planning seems to be emerging. I am told that the effects of capitalism, extreme debt and the disbanding of families has significantly changed the social fabric of Punjab. 
On the topic of responsible reporting of suicide deaths by Indian journalists, it was important for Dr Sarabjeet to clarify that he recommends following the World Health Organisation (WHO) guidelines. The do’s and don’ts of reporting suicide is imperative to disclose factual data and discourage reliance on hearsay. In the UK journalists follow the Editors Code of Practice and rules and regulations of the Independent Press Standards Organisation (IPSO) and must follow these Codes carefully when reporting on an inquest.
It is suggested for talking therapies to be conducted in Gurdwaras or in local social settings, helping to re-engage individuals who feel isolated or unheard. Dr Amandeep explains that reflecting on the core principles of Sikhi in a group setting often helps in times of distress and provides a re-grounding experience. The undertaking of daily volunteering activities distracts from rumination and encourages altruism (although one should not neglect their own needs). On questioning the difficulties of implementing interventions, Dr Amandeep advises that it is important to "recognise your own boundaries" and to not to be forceful with advice if people are unwilling to receive help at that particular time. Dr Sarabjeet's main recommendations and advice is to practice resilience building and accept that trials and tribulations arise and dissipate within all family and community structures. He finds engaging in Sikhi to be a useful, grounding practice particularly in times of despair.
Dr Sarabjeet recommends applying his model of the 7 D’s counter-acted with the 7 R’s and implementing the 7 C’s  Psychological First Aid - a free toolkit which he proudly shares with all his university students. The key area that will reduce the exacerbation of the 7D's will be to tackle depression as it is his theory that all the other D's stem from a depressive mental state. The 7R's are advised as a lifestyle management tool to address the challenges within Punjabi communities and 7C's for selfcare and in helping others to manage stress.

Triggering and Confounding Factors: The 7D's

Depression has the potential to be the underlying cause of each of the D’s

Disputes with others 

Drugs and addiction

Debt in the form of loans

Disease causes unplanned medical bills

Disrepute due to impressionable behaviours

Death causing personal and financial loss

Preventing and Protecting Factors: The 7R's

Reassurance through connectedness

Righteous conduct

Religious Support

Responsible Reporting

 Remunerative Agriculture

Resilience Building

Rational Expenditure in order to remain in control of finances. Manage budgets for marital plans and celebrations with sensibility not extravagance 

Psychological First Aid model: The 7C’s 

 Check and observe people around you     

 Coordinate if anyone needs help try to provide it

 Cover and get to safety asap

 Calm relax, slow down, refocus

 Connect and get support from others

 Competence to restore the effectiveness

Confidence to restore self-esteem and hope

We conduct an autopsy on the physical body...but we are unable to investigate inside the mind for it to tell us what was actually going on. 

Dr Sarabjeet Singh 

Professor of Journalism

 The impact of case referrals to a mental health professional early on as guided by the training would reduce the ‘snowballing’ effect of ideation for the sufferer.

Nelson Vinod Moses

Founder of SPIF

Training


Theme 2b. Psychological First Aid and Selfcare Plans: Gatekeeper Training

contributions from Nelson Vinod Moses, Sanjana Jain

Nelson is the CEO of Suicide Prevention India Foundation (SPIF) which bases its training on the QPR Institute method of Gatekeeper and Pathfinder Training Q - Questioning, P - Persuading and R - Referring suicidal individuals to a mental health professional. The concept applies the framework of recognizing warning signs (soft signs) of suicide ideation very early on, and acting on it similarly to CPR training. Nelson's recommendation is for British Punjabi Sikh women to devise a safety plan to be followed up with self-care interventions as an immediate and on-going lifestyle practice. His advice is to normalise spiritual practice in daily healthcare routines in addition to physical exercise as it imparts grounding, refocus and an awareness of fluctuating emotions and cognition. Alternatively, he recommends making use of local resources that offer support for example the Centre for Wellbeing in Bengaluru at the NIMHAMS institute offers support to anyone who feels they need to speak to a professional. They state that "there is not much awareness about minor mental disturbances that could be a part of anybody’s daily life." (NIMHANS Centre for Well Being – NIMHANS)

protective factors: controlled breathing techniques, guided meditation

identify risk factors: e.g pre-examination anxiety for a college student

  • Recognize the warning signs of ideation and refer to a professional

  • Know how to offer hope with proper training

  • Know how to get help and save a life with effective communication

Nelson explains how the busy pace of Indian life distracts the prioritisation of self-assessing one's mental health status and accepting help and advice from others should be normalised. One of his general recommendations is to implement trusted Gatekeepers into local communities, ensuring support is accessible and substantiated either through online training or small group in-person workshops. A Gatekeeper is someone in a position to recognize a crisis and the warning signs that someone may be contemplating suicide. He supports the idea of anyone being able to become a Gatekeeper once they follow the guided training and put it into practice. 

Sanjana Jain is Project Co-ordinator at Outlive, a four year suicide prevention programme focusing on youth advocacy, peer support and public engagement. Outlive is youth-led by 18-24 year olds and their initiatives are implemented in colleges, universities, online and via a select Fellowship Programme. Suicide is recognised as the number one cause of death in this age group and is a public health issue in India (Senapati et al, 2024). Sanjana explains the importance of suicide prevention awareness generation, of policy advocation and of provision of Gatekeeping resources in the form of training. Outlive youth consultations reveal that young people in India are more likely to approach their peers than adults when feeling anxious, ideating self-harm or suicide. This division between social groups is of concern. Applying focused interventions for young people in educational spaces is advised as an effective approach. 

Students at Outlive share their experiences through public story-telling and on private online forums under the supervision of professional mental health practitioners. It was explained to me that young people initially did not know how to approach suicide prevention and that a number of consultations were required to devise information friendly resources. Sanjana states that from the Covid-19 lockdown era until today, the real time web-chat resource that is peer-run, continues to work well with young people and advises me of its replication for British Punjabi students who may prefer to receive support online in anonymity. We discuss why young people ideate suicide, and she reveals that caste-based discrimination, relationship issues, academic stress followed by parental expectations are some of the most common reasons.

story-telling · signposting · advocating · fellowships   

web chat forums · psycho-ed material · gatekeeper training 

Challenges and Solutions

  • Ideologies and stigmatisation of suicide 

  • A lack of awareness in how to support peers

  • Policymakers unwilling to acknowledge the concerns of young people

  • De-sensitise suicide ideation across campuses using informative free resources

  • Use your Gatekeeping expertise as first line responders in local neighbourhood spaces 

  •  Negotiate with policymakers and officials with the help of adult support

It would be great to see young people become changemakers in India...to lead local interventions with marginalised communities & stakeholders to create change.

Sanjana Jain

Project Co-ordinator @ Outlive

 I personally believe equal opportunity and inclusion are important factors for kids’ development and I have established my coaching philosophy on this.

Vikram Singh

Founder of Eq0 Sports FC

Childhood



  Theme 3. The Importance of a Holistic Childhood

contributions from Vikram Singh, Dr Jahnvi Sharma

Vikram Singh is Founder and Head Coach of EqO Sports FA in Bengaluru. He supports young people delivering football coaching, fitness training and entry into football leagues competitions. I learn from our conversations about mental health and parental support, that he would have benefitted from the coaching practices that he instils in young people during his childhood. He advocates variating communication styles, recognising alternative learning approaches in players and being mindful of young people in their capacity as children. He expresses that parental expectations of education being placed above all else is existent in Indian culture, and explains that his interactive style of coaching addresses conditioned thinking that he believes stagnates personal development and suppresses creativity in young players.

EqO coaching plans are designed to improve motivation, develop cognitive skills and support physical strength. The plans provide structure for players to follow, enables the formation of relationships and improves clarity in communication. Vikram recommends holding regular brainstorming sessions with parents and players to encourage inclusive dialogue, to troubleshoot issues and to set future targets. These are all factors which help young people foster trust in others and develop faith in themselves. We reflect on his UK coaching experiences with the girls teams and of the cultural comparison between the 'parental investment' appointed to daughters as football players and agreed that more needs to be done for Punjabi girls to benefit from what football offers and that depends on societal attitudes to gender equality.

group chat · league table position · recognition · friendships

self motivate · improve mental focus · manage physical health issues

Mental health challenges v Sports-related peer support 

  • Tackle negative self-talk

  • Disrupt feelings of loneliness 

  • Regulate and express your emotions 

  • Encourage social interaction with friends use WhatsApp group chat

  • Form relationships and adapt to boundaries encourage a flexible and open mindset

  • Manage emotions, reflect on performance, set future targets, recognise all achievements

 Dr Jahnvi Sharma is a homeopathic practitioner, consulting with patients locally in clinic and globally online. Homeopathy use is increasing in the UK although, India still holds the highest figures of use in the world (HRI, 2023). We discuss her expertise in homeopathy and of her methods of prescribing according to the homeopathic medical repertory. Her primary interest is in the function of the endocrine system and how it affects hormonal production, regulation and dysfunction. She mentions that the majority of her clients are women, displaying symptomatic ailments often linked to hormonal imbalance. She applies homeopathy to remedy "how a client is thinking, and to find the cause"We discuss how she spends more than an hour in consultation in order to gain the trust of her clients and for them to feel safe to disclose, when counselled, of their personal issues. The benefits of unrestricted time, enables clients to gradually disclose any traumatic experiences that may be asymptomatic or psychosomatic and require resolve. 

Dr Sharma reveals that untreated childhood trauma is very common in clients, and she is aware of socio-cultural issues affecting Punjabi women that induce externalised symptoms. She presents an example of ideation where a client visualises drowning. Dr Sharma will investigate the cause of where the thoughts of drowning transpire from (using counselling methods) to determine why ideation arises. She reveals that internalisation of ideation is often formed from language and ideologies reflected in society. It is common for women to verbalise "killing themselves" as a way of coping with unmanageable situations and indicates helplessness. We discuss examples of the impact of disfavour by close family. It is common for elders to collectively express their disappointment at how young people have accultured to becoming 'like foreigners'. Often finding empty nesting syndrome difficult to accept with complaints of isolation and loneliness. 

On treating a younger client living within a wider family unit, Dr Sharma includes and lectures the household to avoid further aggravation of the client's symptoms. She will instruct them to not over-express care and to maintain positive parenting so the process of recovery remains consistent. Issues arise when individuals in wider families express conflicting or dismissive actions which undermines the position of the person suffering. She advises that a client set clear boundaries with the family unit and to continue with regular counselling and self-care planning.

 In a case of extreme anxiety in a client, Dr Sharma tells me that the nervous system is targeted with 'rescue remedies' bringing an internal calmness and  equilibrium in the immediate term. A diagnosis will be followed up with counselling therapy or further homeopathic remedies depending on the severity of the issue. She explains the importance of increasing serotonin levels as the brain gets used to reduced levels. Depression caused by low serotonin levels is a major factor in the treatment of managing suicide ideation. She highlights negative effects of pollution, lifestyle changes, food intolerance, exposure to different environments (common in migrants due to weather changeability). Dr Sharma reveals that she consults with diaspora clients from abroad in places like Canada as homeopathy is expensive under healthcare insurance. I am told that the remedies are cost-friendly and quick to send by courier from Punjab to other parts of the world. 

affordable · treats the cause · adjust potency · no time limit

identify childhood trauma · all natural · holistic body & mind

Mental health challenges in childhood

  • Not prescribed repeatedly unlike allopathic 

  • Cost friendly as ingredients are inexpensive

  • Deduction system followed for appropriate remedy

  • Locate trauma, determine reaction, investigate the cause, implement methods of rebalance

  • Treat the body and mind as one system 

  • Identify conditioned psychology and treat with counselling. Re-set personal boundaries with others

I look into the background of the individual and into their childhood and adolescence. I enquire into how they reacted or coped with events during those life stages and if they are sensitive or resilient to disorder.

Dr Jahnvi Sharma

Homeopathic Practitioner 

 We are in denial, our community has been impacted by the most farmer suicides. We don't actually know how many Punjabi's have died by suicide overall. 

 Kulpreet Singh CEO of South Asian Mental Health Alliance 

Immigration



 Theme 4. Post-Immigration Care

contributions from Kulpreet Singh

 Kulpreet Singh is Founder of South Asian Mental Health Alliance (SAMHAA) in British Colombia (BC) area of Canada. He highlights some of the extensive damage that is done to Punjabi Sikh communities, impacting on Punjabi Sikh women. These include but are not limited to immigrationexploitation and drug and alcohol misuse. He explains of trends in issues relating to loneliness and isolation. A feeling of being 'stuck' from one's current position and of experiencing parental or partner separation anxiety. In exampling cases of international students in BC, he states that exposure to poor living conditions impacts on their mental state and jeopardises educational chances. His organisation offers pre-arrival orientation interventions which is stepped in its approach. Support is offered during the study inquiry stage, visa approval stage and on arrival. The additional services that students are signposted to by SAMHAA can be seen below, providing restorative justice outcomes and solutions to exploitative behaviour and dealing with issues with administration and legal services.

One Voice Canada

One Voice Canada is a non-profit created to support vulnerable migrants and students and to connect them with legal services.

Team We Care

A student-led group who support Canadian international students with settlement services, job-finding, accommodation, medical care and administration services.

Naujawan Support Network

Naujawan meaning 'youth' in Punjabi is a group of international students and young workers that organize against exploitation in the workplace. Their focus is on activism, rallies and protests.

World Sikh Organization

This Sikh Family Helpline’s mission is to promote health and wellness for individuals and families in the Sikh community by closing current gaps in access to resources and increasing community awareness and activism.

Mental health challenges and interventions linked to matters of immigration 

  • Advocate for the collection of gendered race based data  

  • Uphold accountability of government ministers in constructing policy interventions

  • Identify, recognise, clarify traumatic issues developing due to ethnic/religious ideologies

    Practice mindfulness, yoga, spa massage therapies in like-minded group settings

  • Access pre-arrival orientation resources aimed at supporting international students during study settlement

  • Reconnect with others and self, build resilience, access safe spaces with like-minded social groups

  • Attend professionally-led youth retreat training programmes aimed at managing emotional regulation, reflecting on spirituality

Connection


Theme 5. Connecting Globally: A Gender Issue 

contributions from Case Studies 

Case B
Married, with one child studying in Canada and one in Punjab. 

Case C
Unmarried, early 20s, no children, no father, lives with mother and elder brother in Punjab.
Case D
Elderly woman, living independently in Punjab, no husband or children. 

Social media restrictions a global indifference

The Tik Tok App is currently banned in India affecting millions of female content creators and business owners in Punjab. Young girls and women can access Instagram which is currently the most used app for sharing and following content. "I work in a salon and share my styles on Instagram" Case C tells me of her plans to build a hairdressing and tattoo business although she is restricted in personal autonomy. She is discouraged from going to places like the local Sikh Gurdwara on her own or with friends. She is pressurised by her mother "almost daily" to instigate marriage (as she is now in her mid-twenties).

Long distance dreams and separation anxiety

20 year old son, an international student, works and studies abroad, paying his own fees and living expenses. He has exceptional exams results from a Punjab college. Case B tells me her son keeps away from bad influences and is focused on 'making something of himself' but the reality is "it is non-stop to survive out there (Canada). I had to borrow money from family to get him there, I still owe them and I worry about repayments. God willing he settles. I want to see him soon, I do not know if he will come back yet and I miss him." Case B suffers from anxiety linked to educational debt and from separation from her firstborn son. She uses prayer to help her refocus when she feels overwhelmed with grief.

WhatsApp 4G data & illiteracy

An essential App enabling Punjabi women to connect globally, reconnect with family abroad, recollect memories, send recorded voice notes (if users are unable to read instructions or type into the keyboard), access, send, receive photos and videos. Connection through live video calls. 

"I fill my day with conversation with neighbours and feel happy when my childhood friends call for me on the phone, they live far away." Case D explaining how she manages the use of phone services to connect with others, preventing her from feeling lonely.

Economic freedom for everyone?

Paytm Mobile instant App scan and pay system in shops and public transport enables women to not only control use of funds, but to register to banking services. PhonePe is India’s first UPI payment platform in India although there are multiple other Apps in use. 15 Best UPI Payment Apps in India (2024) (moneymint.com) 

Case C told me that she does not have a registered surname on her birth document. She dreams of travelling abroad one day, but is document poor which marginalizes her in comparison to her elder brother. Digital payments bring new economic opportunities for women | World Economic Forum (weforum.org)

I still follow people from the UK on my Instagram, even though I am back here in Punjab. I stay in touch because otherwise all I hear about is marriage. I don't want to be a housewife cooking all day. I still want to have ambitions and do something with my life. 

Case A

International student